It disturbs that some men still can't respect a strong women undefined by societal images. The guys that I am referring to are those that are demanding us women to express our emotions and feelings, or constantly showing men we care about them. A guy I was "talking" to told me I was like a dude because I had no emotion. Why do some men expect all women to go love crazy on them. I don't have time to constantly tell a guy how I feel . If you need to be reinforced so often then we don't need to be together. If we addressed the situation already then all we need to do is maintain our love by actions.
I appreciate the signs of love, such as good communication, or simple acts like writing poetry for someone, giving flowers, or just noticing small things about someone. They speak volumes and more than the words "I care about you" or I love you". Showing your love helps your partner know and define how you really feel about them. Words alone don't mean much. Going back to strong women I have realized these guys love weak women they can control. These guys build up confidence from preying on women that they know will go crazy for them. Honestly in my opinion these men are suffering from insecurities and are intimidated by a woman who they can't predict or control. I demand the dual participation; if you want me to show you affection and love then you must do the same at the same degree. I can't take the half ass type of relationships that these men give. Does anybody else share similar thoughts?
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